So Who Has What?

So Who Has What?

When it comes to your wedding flowers, have you thought about who will have what on the day?

Its OK if not, I remember knowing exactly what I wanted from my bridal bouquet, and everything else was a second thought..

When it comes to who has what, there are some people you may want to consider or ditch depending on your budget.


Consider who is in your wedding party or who you want in your wedding party.

This comes down to personal preference but generally includes members of your family & friends, People who will be Bridesmaids, Groomsmen, Flowers Girls then you need to think about close family members such as Grandparents, Mum’s, Dad’s, Aunties and Uncles the list could on but I’m not going to ..

Make your List if you have not done so already, It will help when you are shopping for other stuff like gifts, dresses and suits..anyway back to the task in hand…

This is a picture of some my wedding party

So who has What..

Brides you lucky ladies get the big (if you so wish) bouquet, and a tossing tossing bouquet, if you want to keep the tradition and not ruin your bouquet.

I only had one bouquet for my wedding and as I wanted to keep it I decided to ditch that particular tradition…

Sarah on her wedding day

Bridesmaids, traditionally they have a bouquet similar to the brides but smaller, but if you don’t like the idea of them have a bouquet then opt for something a little different like a wrist corsage, if your fab bridesmaids are having a bag to match their outfit then it may look to much anyway, so something simpler would look great.

Alice in Wonderland Inspired wedding
Write Corsages

The little ones, flower girls, mini bridesmaids, these little cuties get a choice of a few things, a small/mini Bouquet, a basket to throw the petals (flower girl), Wrist Corsages or a wand, the wand and basket will have a small flower arrangement on them or a mini bouquet if they are not trowing petals on the aisle.

For the mini men, Page boys, who am I kidding they all act the same age..that’s why men and boys all the same thing, Buttonholes (boys with badge backs, Men with pins). These are also for best-man, groomsmen, ushers, Father of the Bride, Father of the Groom, your Granddad, Uncle etc..

My Awesome Brother and my Nephew Matt

Below I have made a short list of who has what, I hope this helps.

  • Bridal Bouquet
  • Tossing Bouquet
  • Bridesmaid Bouquets
  • Flower Girls’ Flowers
  • Groom’s Buttonhole
  • Ring bearer’s buttonhole
  • Mother of the bride’s corsage
  • Mother of the groom’s corsage
  • Father of the bride’s buttonhole
  • Father of the groom’s buttonhole
  • Grandmothers’ corsages
  • Grandfathers’ Buttonhole

Always remember its your wedding day, you are celebrating the your love for each other..so pick what you want, love and people you care about

If you only want you and partner to have flowers do it, but if you also want the entire wedding party to have them do that too..

Speak Soon

Bekki xx